Friday, December 11, 2009

So.... there's this boy... {Part #3} - the kissin and huggin and luvin!


And now........the good stuff.  (no puking on the computer monitor)  try to contain yourselves!  ;-)
{just in case you are just joining me on my adventure - catch up at Part 1 and Part 2!}

on to the story.......
As if the Thanksgiving weekend wasn't enough......this past weekend was surreal.
Friday was my work Christmas party.  I can only say this.... I have never been so at ease and so excited for someone to meet my coworkers.  I have never BEEN so happy!  The night was great.
Saturday (of course in the afternoon was the basketball game with my son) but after the game, we rushed home to meet Adam and his precious little girl.  We all loaded up and headed to a local night Christmas parade.  We FROZE to death, but it was great  :)   After the parade we stopped by my brothers to visit for his birthday.  Once there, we ALL, kids included played a game together on Wii.
Moving on to Sunday....
Adam is a preacher and has recently begun a church.  My son and I got up Sunday morning and went to his church for a visit.  The ENTIRE experience was fabulous!  My 14 year old son who I can barely drag outta bed on Sunday morning actually enjoyed the message {BIG smiles for mom}  After church, we met my entire family for lunch for my brothers birthday.  Again - the day could not have been going better.  After lunch, Adam and his little girl went home to pick up his other daughter.  Later that night - I picked them all up and we headed to my church for our Christmas program.  The feeling of sitting in church... me, Adam, his girls and my boy....it was just almost surreal....  He described it as strangely comfortable.  Afterwards we went by my parents to show the girls the horses (the oldest one takes riding lessons) and then headed to Wendys for some grub.  The girls were soooo sweet.  The oldest asked if she could draw me a picture of a horse.  HOW freakin sweet is that?!?!  And then as we walked out of Wendy's to the truck, my son looks at me and says "Watch this mom, they are gonna try to lock me outta the truck"  and they did.... giggling the entire time like sweet little girls do.  My boy thought it was adorable.  The night could not have gone any better  :)

So in summary, this weekend, Adam met my boss and my friends from work, he met my ENTIRE family (mom, dad, brothers, SIL's family and even my aunt who happened to show up), met my preacher & I met his daughters.  And everything was perfect.  The weekend was just .... as I said before.... oddly perfect.

Here's the weird part (not so much weird, but more new for me... I have never felt this way before) - I love the weekend we had with the kids.  I love his little girls... and my son has never been so happy and in such a good mood  (HELLO - good mood & hell didn't freeze over!  LOL)  Anyway the thing I missed the most over the weekend was mine and Adam's chat time late at night.  You see - with the girls, he can't stay at my house late and talk.... so no late night talks.  I couldn't WAIT till Monday for him to come over so we could talk again......
reminder:  we have shared no real physical intimate moments.  Up to this point it's just been getting to know each other and I have to say....it's been so great!
But Monday night finally came and I got my one on one time  :)   We spent hours on the love seat, talking, laughing and reminiscing over the weekend....
and then it happened.  YUP......  the....."I LOVE YOU!"
Suddenly I couldn't breathe....and then came the kiss........
Do you remember part 1?  the part where he leaned into my ear and whispered and I realized at THAT point I wanted to kiss him!??  do you remember that??!?!  Do you KNOW how long I have been waiting for this?!?!!  it could not have been more perfect and I. could. not. breathe!!!  My heart pounded from my chest and I had to concentrate on where I was....
WOW!
Some of you may remember, some time back - I posted this blog about kissing.  On and on about that kiss that just blows you away.  That kiss that just tells you, the one that makes your heart race and stops you from breathing at the same time, the one you want to last FOR.EV.ER!!........this is the one.   :)  {Read my other blog for full details on The Kiss}
This might have just been that kiss  :)
I have never felt so much love and emotion in a kiss....
Where do I sign?
I love this boy......just so we are clear, I have never looked so forward to my future!!

I'm sure I will have plenty more stories to share......we have big plans for this weekend actually!!!!  (Adam's birthday has already passed and we still haven't gotten to celebrate it... just the two of us, so I can't wait to do that this weekend!)  Lots of other things going on too!!!
Life is good.
God is good.
I have never been quite so blessed as I am right now.
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh............

16 comments:

Scope said...

So, maybe he MAY get a belated birthday kiss? Is that what you are saying?

Shell said...

Aw!!! I'm sitting here with a big grin on my face, so happy for you!

Daffy said...

I've got that dopey grin on my face too! Thanks so much for sharing :O) Looking forward to hearing more!

Colleen @ MuralMaker&More said...

stopping by from SITS. Ah, I remember the feelings well. The best, the very best - falling in love. Thanks for sharing and taking me down my own memory lane. It's been an 19 year roller coaster ride, but there are times when I look at him and just feel so at peace.

Tami G said...

Scope: He's gonna get a lot more than birthday kisses!!! ha ha KIDDING!!! I AM looking forward to that one on one time though!

Shell & Daffy: I can't get RID of that big goofy grin.. the joy I have in my life is undeniable! My son even said to me this morning "gosh mom, you sure have been in a good mood lately" =)

Colleen: Thanks for stopping by and I'm glad you enjoyed my story! Yay for 19 years with your man.... I hope to one day be able to look back and say the same thing :-) & yes... I love that feeling of just... peace.

Tattoos and Teething Rings said...

How sweet! I just threw up in my mouth a little...but in a good way ;)

*uncorked said...

Yeah, totally threw up a little bit, but also smiled - you sound truly happy! Congratulations :)

Erin said...

Okay, I'm kinda gagging over the mushy stuff, but I'm THRILLED for you guys! Congrats!

Melanie said...

Welcome to that blows your socks off, hard to breathe, don't want to function without them love..:)

Secretia said...

It's beautiful all over again, life comes roaring back at you!
Take it across the goal line!

Secretia

leigh said...

I love it that you are so unabashidly happy.

Leigh

kys said...

Ok, it's "that time of the month" so I'm a little emotional but I'm tearing up reading this. For realz. So happy for you. You deserve this.

There's always a million reasons not to do something said...

Tami! this is SO awesome!! I have been a bad follower and didn't catch up on this until this morning! I am SO happy for you :) :) :)

Tami G said...

TnT Rings & Uncorked: I said no throwing up... I warned ya! ;-)
*it makes me wanna throw up a bit sometimes too - but I love every minute of it!*

Erin: no gagging either ;-) ha ha
Thanks!

Melanie: it is definitely that! I have to remind myself to breathe from time to time... ahhhhhhhh

Secretia & Leigh - THANK you sooo much! {HUGE smile}

Kys: UR too sweet!! hope they were happy emotional tears ;-)

Million reasons: I'm just glad you got to catch up this morning... I'll forgive you... this time ;-)

That One Mom said...

Very exciting!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!

Holly said...

I am so happy for you. He sounds amazing and the relationship sounds amazing...lucky girl!