a lil' ranting today - STUPID STUPID boys!!!!

Effective immediately - I have NO...wait - very little faith in very few men
Some days I feel more optimistic than others..... today is not one of those days.
The whole dating thing just blows my mind sometimes and you are lucky enough today to get to listen to me whine (VENT) about it!  Lucky you!
One of my guy friends ALWAYS teases me about being a "man-hater" - but seriously guys - you do it to yourselves!  I don't wanna be a "man-hater"  ha ha
I just have a few questions......maybe I'm an idiot and I just don't understand......but - ok - answer me this:

1.  When a guys says "i'll call you later" OR "i'll call you back"- does that REALLY mean "heads up, I'm NOT gonna call" because that is what they do.  I can't stand.......no, HATE when a guy says he will call and doesn't!  LIAR LIAR!!  That is not an oversight - it's a LIE!  Just don't SAY your gonna call if your such a moron that you think it might slip your mind!   And if you really have NO intention of calling - why even say it?!  because you WANT to reinforce what an A-hole you are??

2.  What about "i'll talk to ya later" - what is later in your book?  Because in my book later infers later on in the SAME day......but nope - apparently I'm wrong again.  Later might mean 4 days from now??  I never knew that!  Yes - technically 4 days from now is "later" - but it's just so NOT cool.  

3.  Please oh please explain to me how you tell someone you enjoy spending time with them and you would like to date - yes - actually USE the word date - and then you can go 4+ days without so much as a phone call/text/anything!  REALLY - gosh - I want to be loved like that!  That's EXACTLY what I think of when I think of the word dating........someone that I might see or hear from once a week!  YES!  Thank YOU!

* here's a hint guys.....we ARE adults here.  If you don't wanna call and you don't wanna date, try honesty on for size.  Tell us you just don't feel the chemistry.  It's ok.  We've been on dates where we don't feel it either....It. IS. ok!!!
* here's another point - we have all been at points in our life where we are just "too busy" to date or call or really show any interest or care at all about dating...  But - I'm gonna tell you a secret - when we girls DO meet someone that we feel that connection to.........it does NOT matter what is going on in life or "how busy" we are - we will MAKE THE TIME to see you.  Return the favor.  If you are truly interested, make the time.  just sayin... if we can do it - so can you.  & if you CANT make the time, you aren't as interested as you think you are.  Accept it, move on and don't say "i'll call you later"

4.  Don't even get me started on men and AFFAIRS!  It seems everywhere I turn these days - someone is talking about having an affair..... I realize an affair takes two - and I'm not just judging the guy in this situation (trust me - I have a WHOLE blog about the whole affair thing - but that's for another day)  today - I just want to specify the ONE guy that is "unhappily" married and telling ANOTHER girl that he loves her and wants to be with her!!??  Really?!!?!!!!!  YES!  "you're my soulmate... I could see being married to you someday!"  HELLO - you're ALREADY married!!!!!!  And I guess what gets me the most about this one is:  if you are really THAT unhappy in your marriage and you really LOVE this other girl - get a freaking divorce and walk away.  but NOPE......just string them both along.  yeah - that's the real MANLY thing to do! 
THAT gives me a LOT of faith in men AND marriage!  :-(  

5.  And finally - what about the guy that meets this girl that is just phenomenal.  He's crazy about her.  Maybe he tells her and maybe not - doesn't really matter - because he's just too damn scared or stubborn to do anything about it.  It's just frustrating.

My biggest question of all is - GIRLS - whyyyyyy do we put ourselves through this?
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
just in one of those moods today.

Song of the day....fitting.......Keith Urban's "Stupid Boy"
love him
love the song!