<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891</id><updated>2012-02-01T06:23:15.198-06:00</updated><category term='sanctus real'/><category term='rock bottom'/><category term='ultrasound'/><category term='topix'/><category term='Little black dress party'/><category term='Owl City'/><category term='Oprah'/><category term='wedding'/><category term='urban dictionary'/><category term='jealousy'/><category term='not a destination'/><category term='Boys like girls'/><category term='fairy tales'/><category term='nashville tn'/><category term='horoscopic'/><category term='aries'/><category term='happyness'/><category term='God&apos;s up to 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term='my heaven'/><category term='things I love'/><category term='dumb and dumber'/><category term='oswald chambers'/><category term='blessings'/><category term='good and evil'/><category term='lucky'/><category term='insane'/><category term='dancing'/><category term='personality traits'/><category term='Get out of that Pit'/><category term='bad day'/><category term='brothers'/><category term='zz top'/><category term='the end'/><category term='spur of the moment'/><category term='heartbreak'/><category term='prayer'/><category term='pretty woman'/><category term='eyes'/><category term='Morgan Marie Photography'/><category term='women'/><category term='readers'/><category term='children'/><category term='recession'/><category term='personal crisis'/><category term='adam'/><category term='you might just be one person'/><category term='New beginnings'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='thankful'/><category term='Chris Daughtry'/><category term='preacher T'/><category term='kinky klubhopper'/><category term='self discovery'/><category term='pour your heart out'/><category term='single'/><category term='photobooth'/><category term='happy'/><category term='blended family'/><category term='my wedding'/><category term='weekend'/><category term='journey'/><category term='blog'/><category term='children having children'/><category term='period'/><category term='foreshadowing'/><category term='embarssing'/><category term='clay underwood'/><category term='passion'/><category term='florida'/><category term='country'/><category term='criticism'/><category term='johnny cash'/><category term='jobs'/><category term='you complete me'/><category term='carrie underwood'/><category term='epic fail'/><category term='optimism'/><category term='mall'/><category term='religion'/><category term='missing'/><category term='joke'/><category term='quotes'/><category term='comfortable in your own skin'/><category term='donkey'/><category term='fail'/><category term='sonography'/><category term='snow'/><category term='warning'/><category term='in love'/><category term='rougue'/><category term='money'/><title type='text'>Every day in gray...</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>254</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8107393518387458515</id><published>2012-01-27T00:20:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-27T00:20:38.402-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pain is weakness leaving the body'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weakness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='suffering'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='when I weak then i am strong'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt'/><title type='text'>I've been working out...</title><summary type='text'>

and I didn't even know it!!!  HA!
(that's the BEST way to work out BTW!  :)  hee hee)

I read something tonight...  I have come across it before and I just absolutely LOVE the quote.


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"



Then someone (who shall remain nameless... Raphael - LOL) made the mistake of asking me my thoughts on this little string of words...  OOOOPS!  (ha ha)  you guys KNOW I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8107393518387458515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8107393518387458515&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8107393518387458515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8107393518387458515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2012/01/ive-been-working-out.html' title='I&apos;ve been working out...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-V_-pm6sXjxE/TyDiGmRQbfI/AAAAAAAABRc/sdpuQ9GXg-k/s72-c/work+out.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8080789964544381268</id><published>2012-01-23T00:45:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-23T00:45:44.652-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='turbulence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='layover'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preparing you for something big'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='journey'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='epiphany'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life&apos;s journey'/><title type='text'>The layover...</title><summary type='text'>

It's prep time for the journey ahead...... 

So after my last blog, I kinda tucked my tail and walked away from the blog world.
I received many emails and messages asking me to keep writing....
I love writing... and I love you guys!!  So I wanted to still be here...
  
But it was like after I blew off steam and signed off that last blog, I closed the door.
And then... even when I WANTED to come</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8080789964544381268/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8080789964544381268&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8080789964544381268'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8080789964544381268'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2012/01/layover.html' title='The layover...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PpVwLvTwRGc/TxzdEtE-SNI/AAAAAAAABRU/8qenYEOVBWA/s72-c/plane.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3368616135865433490</id><published>2012-01-14T20:49:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-14T20:49:01.724-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartache'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='enemies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hypocrite'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='judge me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christian'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>You've got enemies?!!</title><summary type='text'>

Good - at least you know you stood for something... 

Ya know...
I started this blog years ago.
I started it as a sort of way to vent... a way to deal with life and all the ups and downs.... all the unanswered questions.... all the cross-roads we encounter.
And as I walked along the journey of my blog - I got emails and comments from people that said Thanks for what you are not afraid to say...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3368616135865433490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3368616135865433490&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3368616135865433490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3368616135865433490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2012/01/youve-got-enemies.html' title='You&apos;ve got enemies?!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-IJ5ejkuodhQ/TxI5DZRxFxI/AAAAAAAABRM/GDM01y6ZkJc/s72-c/hate+me.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5585457736733249788</id><published>2012-01-09T12:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T13:49:06.504-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='i&apos;m famous'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='topix'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jealousy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='girls'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='i&apos;m a star'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='slander'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gossip'/><title type='text'>You're nobody till your somebody's TOPIX!!</title><summary type='text'>

It's like I'm famous or something.........

Ohhhhhhh - the things I would love to share with you!!!
I've learned many MANY things over the past few weeks...
But the greatest news is this....
I've made it
to the BIG time...
I'm famous..
it's ASTOUNDING

Apparently the world has gone to POT and has nothing better to do than discuss little ol' me!  ha ha

My past, my present, and apparently </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5585457736733249788/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5585457736733249788&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5585457736733249788'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5585457736733249788'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2012/01/youre-nobody-till-your-somebodys-topix.html' title='You&apos;re nobody till your somebody&apos;s TOPIX!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-NA6qVjSoOP4/TwqKmDJZFrI/AAAAAAAABRE/GS8cGlc1lKQ/s72-c/mews.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-935497169087202425</id><published>2012-01-01T09:48:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T02:15:10.459-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='compromise'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wife'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Dating?  what?  how?!!  WHY!!!</title><summary type='text'>

I found this online, I think someone posted it on facebook.   But as I read it, I thought back about relationships I have been in and I SWEAR I thought to myself at least 40 times that if I could go back in time, I would smack me in the face!!!!!!!

So anyway - I thought I would share... single, married, dating, it doesn't matter - it's good advice for us ALL!  And although it's mostly written </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/935497169087202425/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=935497169087202425&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/935497169087202425'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/935497169087202425'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/dating-what-how-why.html' title='Dating?  what?  how?!!  WHY!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6AOTuluvdCk/Tvx_3x7tMqI/AAAAAAAABQA/nC45CUc_pdw/s72-c/hands.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-317898415544308715</id><published>2012-01-01T01:46:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-01T01:46:13.645-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Years Eve'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='2011'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='2012'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>Good Riddance 2011</title><summary type='text'>

Yeah yeah yeah........
Midnight came and went.
The ball dropped.
The world didn't come to an end.
I'm still here and it's 2012 now.
Big Whoop!
What big phenomenon happened at the stroke of midnight that was sooooo life changing?
Nothing.

My friends were all out celebrating with their significant others
My brothers with their wives.
My son out with his friends.
ALL as it should be.

Yeah - I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/317898415544308715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=317898415544308715&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/317898415544308715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/317898415544308715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2012/01/good-riddance-2011.html' title='Good Riddance 2011'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-slKjRbrzC-s/TwAN2ZfyyaI/AAAAAAAABQM/TFUk-WFJs14/s72-c/2011.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3702180981939067898</id><published>2011-12-26T23:47:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-27T23:05:42.117-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gift'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>~Motivational Monday~   my gift to you</title><summary type='text'>

Yes - I know it's Tuesday
But most of us have been off work and actually had a long weekend.  Tuesday is our Monday this week.  First day back to the grind and even though it's a short week, for some reason, they always seem harder to me!

So - here's a little inspiration for the week!
My Christmas gift to you  :) 

I hope everyone had a wonderfully happy and joy filled holiday Christmas </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3702180981939067898/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3702180981939067898&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3702180981939067898'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3702180981939067898'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/motivational-monday-my-gift-to-you.html' title='~Motivational Monday~   my gift to you'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TdgdRJWmJQo/TvqhaKHYwBI/AAAAAAAABPo/vo6mLG_XQ-o/s72-c/gift+give.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-947953226902415123</id><published>2011-12-24T23:40:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-24T23:40:03.044-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='giving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='selfless giving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blessings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christmas eve'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blessed'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='selfless'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='James 1:19-27'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='joyful giver'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religious'/><title type='text'>Merry Christmas Eve</title><summary type='text'>

I just wanted to take a quick minute to wish every one a VERY Merry Christmas and remind you all....
Please remember the reason for the season.
This time of year we tend to get so caught up in the hustle and bustle and keeping up with who got what - that we lose focus of the true meaning and blessings of the Christmas season.

Today - tonight - tomorrow - some time over this holiday, do </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/947953226902415123/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=947953226902415123&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/947953226902415123'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/947953226902415123'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/merry-christmas-eve.html' title='Merry Christmas Eve'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lG-5dpvlaV8/TvY0AYGGUjI/AAAAAAAABPc/fLcZU8JpyNE/s72-c/christmas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2731315497310894921</id><published>2011-12-18T23:10:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T23:23:38.443-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break ups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='courage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dream big'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='past'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgive yourself'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pay it forward'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='future'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dream'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='encouragement'/><title type='text'>~Motivational Monday~  Keep Dreaming...</title><summary type='text'>

(or Tuesday, I'm a little late!) 

So I took a little time away from my blog.  Not because I don't love you all and not because I don't need this blog.  But because I needed a mini vacay from my brain and all my thoughts and analyzing!

And now I'm back....
so fresh and so clean clean  :)

Lots of people have checked in on me over the past several months.  (some have been checking for longer </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2731315497310894921/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2731315497310894921&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2731315497310894921'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2731315497310894921'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/motivational-monday-keep-dreaming.html' title='~Motivational Monday~  Keep Dreaming...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-lKx3EGp4iog/TvARSIcwtoI/AAAAAAAABPE/f8M4u5Xy6AA/s72-c/Forgive1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3336236200128932503</id><published>2011-12-06T00:15:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T23:28:29.475-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='white horse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fairytales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='happily ever after'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wife'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prince charming'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fairy tales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends with benefits'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='true love'/><title type='text'>On a white horse??  nahhhhhh</title><summary type='text'>

Watched a movie ...
put some things into a new perspective.
Not really new for me, just a reaffirmation of sorts! 

Remember as little girls (boys.... you know the story too) we all dreamed of the "Cinderella" story... our prince riding in on a white horse and sweeping us off our feet and riding off into the sunset happily ever after.
Yeah - ok - we believed that maybe yesterday when we were </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3336236200128932503/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3336236200128932503&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3336236200128932503'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3336236200128932503'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/on-white-horse-nahhhhhh.html' title='On a white horse??  nahhhhhh'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-qClrrelG2eo/Tt6f5ju_FDI/AAAAAAAABO8/DHbU97uaaPw/s72-c/friend.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-60663986885379912</id><published>2011-12-05T23:37:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T00:04:59.160-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='you might just be one person'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blog'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self discovery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='why i blog'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='searching for yourself'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sharing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hopes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='finding yourself'/><title type='text'>This is my... ME</title><summary type='text'>

People ask me all the time, "why do you blog"
"WHY do you do it?"  "Why do you put so much of yourself out there?"
I think I finally found the answer to that question tonight.

I always say that this is where I heal.
This is where I vent.
This is where I come to spill myself.
And I do it to heal me - but to help others also.
Someone somewhere could be going through what I'm going through right </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/60663986885379912/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=60663986885379912&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/60663986885379912'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/60663986885379912'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/this-is-my-me.html' title='This is my... ME'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cngd91bO3Vk/Tt2tQwg3YQI/AAAAAAAABO0/EuYeAzXjtzg/s72-c/sun.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-701374790477176569</id><published>2011-12-03T18:32:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-04T00:14:09.216-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartache'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s plan'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='struggles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>Reason for the pain...</title><summary type='text'>

Everybody
 struggles and has pain. EVERYBODY!!  God recycles and redeems the pain 
the very moment we use our experience to help someone else through their
 pain.  I read this from a pastor's facebook page that I follow and it was like a million light bulbs went off all around me!!  :)

Divorce.  
What a painful word.  
What a painful experience.  
And it happens every day all around us.

Some </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/701374790477176569/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=701374790477176569&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/701374790477176569'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/701374790477176569'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/12/reason-for-pain.html' title='Reason for the pain...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pfK0AU6vujE/Ttr7mNL2l4I/AAAAAAAABOs/C246h_QeoVU/s72-c/hands.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6491397399588821111</id><published>2011-11-27T00:09:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-29T01:06:30.533-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgiven'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='honor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sanctus real'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='repentance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='romans 12'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mistakes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='separation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='right and wrong'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='forgive yourself'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pride'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='revenge'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='anger'/><title type='text'>Forgiveness - the KEY to survival</title><summary type='text'>

What is forgiveness?

To give up resentment of or claim to requital for; to cease to feel resentment against (an offender) 

This seems to be one of the hardest concepts for our feeble human minds to comprehend.  Why?  Because everyone wants justification, vengeance, honor.... Revenge.
When someone wrongs us or hurts us in some way, our selfish pride feels some sort of obligation to hurt </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6491397399588821111/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6491397399588821111&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6491397399588821111'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6491397399588821111'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/forgiveness-key-to-survival.html' title='Forgiveness - the KEY to survival'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-O2KeVoDffbo/TtHWJgZvtcI/AAAAAAAABOc/cR3E8NvVVsY/s72-c/forgive.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1256732315600893608</id><published>2011-11-23T20:02:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-27T21:46:42.238-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='switchfoot'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='A Womans Heart: God&apos;s dwelling place'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='falling in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>~Motivational Monday~ A Womans Prayer</title><summary type='text'>



A Woman’s Prayer




Dear Heavenly
Father, 


I confess that I have not always been as careful as I should’ve been with my
heart. 

From time
to time, my desire for love has caused me to leave my heart in the wrong hands.




I now
commit my heart into your hands for safe-keeping.


Please help me to stop being so impulsive with what you deem so precious. As I
learn to celebrate Your love for</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1256732315600893608/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1256732315600893608&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1256732315600893608'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1256732315600893608'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/motivational-monday-womans-prayer.html' title='~Motivational Monday~ A Womans Prayer'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Jbsm6j_3a04/TtLeYBmjReI/AAAAAAAABOk/GZhw-mcBWzg/s72-c/woman.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5442137072056690833</id><published>2011-11-21T22:13:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-22T20:15:45.462-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break ups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='not a destination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love is a journey'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sparks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='attraction'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall out of love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>The Journey</title><summary type='text'>

I was posed a question tonight... that I can't release from my mind?

~Do you think someone can just fall OUT of love?~

I can't seem to erase that question from my head OR come up with a really good answer...

So - for what it's worth - here are my thoughts...
WHAT DO YOU THINK???

Just for a moment, let's contemplate the love between a woman and a man.

First of all.... I don't think it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5442137072056690833/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5442137072056690833&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5442137072056690833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5442137072056690833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/journey.html' title='The Journey'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9yzMLGnRI8E/Tssrc3RqaBI/AAAAAAAABOU/C2OA3As1uJo/s72-c/journey.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4658816604184355554</id><published>2011-11-20T23:10:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-21T00:17:13.527-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thankful'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thanksgiving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thank you'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unanswered prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='moving on'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><title type='text'>~Motivational Monday~  My New Perspective</title><summary type='text'>

In honor of the week of Thanksgiving - I'm thankfully switching gears.

Putting on my new perspective you might say! 

It was pointed out to me today that we should not only spend time being thankful for the things that we have been given and that God has blessed us with; but we should also take time to be thankful for the things that have been taken away... the things that God has saved us </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4658816604184355554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4658816604184355554&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4658816604184355554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4658816604184355554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/motivational-monday-my-new-perspective.html' title='~Motivational Monday~  My New Perspective'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-eRPNEwZrGG4/TsnpsHoWzWI/AAAAAAAABOM/LuzbllJGtmc/s72-c/crystal.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2596689402845606071</id><published>2011-11-19T15:32:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-19T15:36:32.187-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='undying love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my gift'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unconditional love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my place in the world'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>Back to square one</title><summary type='text'>
Today I'm sharing something I posted.....   well - long ago.

Thoughts, feelings, and emotions that I today - hold firmly to  :)

I hope you enjoy - but more than anything.... I hope you are inspired.

To give.

To LOVE.

To pray.

To trust in God - no matter WHAT the circumstances!!!!




Unconditional love is a term used to describe a love shared with 
someone regardless of the other's actions</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2596689402845606071/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2596689402845606071&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2596689402845606071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2596689402845606071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/back-to-square-one.html' title='Back to square one'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DOPIOT_r15c/Tsgg4NlRH7I/AAAAAAAABOE/Win9CLqSLX8/s72-c/love.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5626504873042866122</id><published>2011-11-17T16:09:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-18T10:13:24.903-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spirit'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='why i blog'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sonshine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sunshine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spiritual'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God speaks'/><title type='text'>Let the Son shine through</title><summary type='text'>

Even out of ruins, God always shows me light  :)
the silver lining if you will........

My last post was very hard.  That day was VERY hard.
BUT such is life.
We all have good days and bad days and days that are just a little harder to get through than others.
I am not special in that.
I guess the difference is, I don't hold in my emotions.  I don't hold in my feelings.
I may speak them, I may </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5626504873042866122/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5626504873042866122&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5626504873042866122'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5626504873042866122'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/let-son-shine-through.html' title='Let the Son shine through'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-1GcoM2_aS4w/TsaC2DhyfiI/AAAAAAAABN8/Mn7YX4YwXu0/s72-c/big-cross-with-huge-crowd-and-rays-of-light.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8191790870104281731</id><published>2011-11-15T21:53:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-18T14:06:27.753-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='paralyzed'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wife'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='britt nicole'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>Paralyzed</title><summary type='text'>


DEFINED :  to bring to a condition of helpless stoppage, inactivity, or inability to act



EXAMPLE :  ME



Today was the day.  The FINAL day.  The day of enlightenment for me.

The day all hope was killed.




He delivered signed Divorce papers to me last night.  Cold.  With no words.  No emotion.  Oblivious... 

all that was left was for me to sign and deliver to the attorney's office....

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8191790870104281731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8191790870104281731&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8191790870104281731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8191790870104281731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/paralyzed.html' title='Paralyzed'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jWqC5FZoHns/TsSSwCWLbXI/AAAAAAAABN0/MPkahfHMcx4/s72-c/frozen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-740172164211820832</id><published>2011-11-14T21:54:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-14T23:06:58.313-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s plan'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='free will'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='separation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='affect'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='past'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='afflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='live and let die'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='moving on'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='britt nicole'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='letting go'/><title type='text'>Live and Let Die</title><summary type='text'>







The beauty and the curse in this word is - God gave us all free will.

Do I believe God has a plan and purpose for your life?  YES!  Do I believe that God has great and mighty things to show you and give you and teach you throughout life?  Absolutely!  I do.
Do I believe that you may suffer hardships and pain along the way... sure.  That's how we GROW!  It's also how we LEARN! 
Some of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/740172164211820832/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=740172164211820832&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/740172164211820832'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/740172164211820832'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/live-and-let-die.html' title='Live and Let Die'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-0e9wo_l1zu4/TsHtE2UYgQI/AAAAAAAABNs/g6m6fmmrOr4/s72-c/letting-go.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-9132817734961866373</id><published>2011-11-12T18:35:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-12T20:45:45.321-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confusion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='saved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='oswald chambers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='devotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='salvation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='backsliding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='church'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='crossroads'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life is hard'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christian'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religious'/><title type='text'>The foundation</title><summary type='text'>

As a child, I was raised in church.  I was given a foundation to stand on.  I am thankful for that.
There were times through out my life when I strayed from what I was taught.  Times that I spread my wings and tried to walk on my own.  And that I did.  But the wonderful thing is... that foundation I was raised with, always brought me back around.
I grew up.  I made mistakes.  I rebelled.  I did</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/9132817734961866373/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=9132817734961866373&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9132817734961866373'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9132817734961866373'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/foundation.html' title='The foundation'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fdI3PYSssXk/Tr8expp8nDI/AAAAAAAABNk/8nmHVKOYuko/s72-c/foundation.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6886385959636907886</id><published>2011-11-10T22:08:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-10T23:29:39.040-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heaven'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the world'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hell'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hope'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='casting crowns'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='believe'/><title type='text'>Hell in a Handbasket</title><summary type='text'>

I have sat for some time now, and watched my world come crashing down around me.  I saw it fall, brick by brick, day after day.  And I fought so hard to keep picking them up and putting them back, and throw some paste on hoping eventually they would stick.  All the while with a big smile on my face thinking... it's gonna get better.  But alas, I watched and felt my heart absolutely break into </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6886385959636907886/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6886385959636907886&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6886385959636907886'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6886385959636907886'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/hell-in-handbasket.html' title='Hell in a Handbasket'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-r4KhunU3B20/Tryvk-6kaGI/AAAAAAAABNc/SBJzMT9IjMc/s72-c/the-fire.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-388765746076278865</id><published>2011-11-09T17:07:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-09T17:30:50.681-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wife'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good and evil'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lost love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heart break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='shakespeare'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='right and wrong'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='break up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><title type='text'>FACES</title><summary type='text'>

God has given you one face and you make yourself another - Shakespeare

Behind my smile is a broken heart,
behind my laugh, I'm falling apart
Look closely at me, and you will see
the girl I am, is the girl I am not.

The battle between these two
who I am and who I pretend to be
Slowly creeps in, and before I know it,
I have become the one, God never intended me to be.

Holding on to a past, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/388765746076278865/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=388765746076278865&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/388765746076278865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/388765746076278865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/faces.html' title='FACES'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-v_Bm5_vSf9o/TrsHXnF7SfI/AAAAAAAABNU/dDi3XFU81tM/s72-c/face.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2502058609990045673</id><published>2011-11-04T00:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-04T06:56:33.991-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt becomes memory'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='contempt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='happiness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tears'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='disgust'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='repulsion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memory'/><title type='text'>When the hurt becomes a memory</title><summary type='text'>

You know how I'll know when I'm healing?
.... when the hurt becomes a memory.

There are days when I am walking along, not thinking about anything
and out of nowhere it hits me.
That gut wrenching, heart stopping pain
shot straight through my soul.
And there is no stopping it.
The tears just flow.

There are days I talk &amp; talk till I'm blue in the face
and I'm mad and confused and just plain </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2502058609990045673/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2502058609990045673&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2502058609990045673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2502058609990045673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/when-hurt-becomes-memory.html' title='When the hurt becomes a memory'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2e4DwWTpvqg/TrN88ZzZ3CI/AAAAAAAABNE/wasXvwdkNus/s72-c/the_past_love__by_mhkk_9512.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1429835090721417985</id><published>2011-11-01T19:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-01T21:21:50.818-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the end'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>the heart is a mystery...</title><summary type='text'>




My
 momma tells me I'm too open - she says I share too much.  Now granted -
 there are some things that I WON'T share.  Some things that
 hurt TOO bad.  Some things that would completely blow you away.... and 
those things...  Well - they aren't for blogs.  They may be used in 
person when a friend is in need.... but they aren't for blogs.

I do have a little tiny filter!  ha ha



However, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1429835090721417985/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1429835090721417985&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1429835090721417985'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1429835090721417985'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/11/im-one-of-lifes-little-mysteries.html' title='the heart is a mystery...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BgLyByCVV18/TrB8kVK9HkI/AAAAAAAABM8/bXzHgrt6vQE/s72-c/CrystalBall.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4402880683806803529</id><published>2011-10-31T22:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-31T23:06:51.432-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love lost'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='angry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adele'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='separation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Setting Fire</title><summary type='text'>

If you're going to be offended by my true honest open RAW feelings - then I suggest you close this blog right now and walk away.  Because today is NOT a good day.  It's not hopeful and warm and fuzzy and reminiscent.  It is instead...... HONEST and REAL.
Tonight I am cleansing and closing the door.   This is where it gets real. 

As a little girl, just like every little girl, I grew up dreaming</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4402880683806803529/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4402880683806803529&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4402880683806803529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4402880683806803529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/10/setting-fire.html' title='Setting Fire'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-i6Uw89fGApo/Tq9OJ1V2jkI/AAAAAAAABM0/e75bMONkc40/s72-c/wedding+dress.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7499898742794835584</id><published>2011-10-30T01:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-30T01:50:51.152-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wounded heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='past'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Back in time...</title><summary type='text'>

My favorite thing about having a blog is going back and reading old posts!!!
MAN I'm a fricking genius!  ha ha
Seriously though...
sometimes they make me laugh..
sometimes they make me cry...
sometimes they inspire me all over again!!

But I think the thing I enjoy the most is going back in time and actually FEELING what I felt when I wrote.

I may be sad today - but I can go back and read my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7499898742794835584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7499898742794835584&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7499898742794835584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7499898742794835584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/10/back-in-time.html' title='Back in time...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-IwzfkY6cZ2s/TqztUo2PYZI/AAAAAAAABMk/Ys08Gjphq3M/s72-c/sad.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-72393093635308742</id><published>2011-10-28T19:22:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-28T19:26:20.444-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bleeding heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wounded heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='roller coaster'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><title type='text'>The Ride</title><summary type='text'>

There were times when the ride was smooth.
There were times when I closed my eyes and climbed a few small hills.
And sometimes I held my breath and threw my hands up and climbed monstrous mountains 
There were times when it was fun and there was nowhere else I'd rather be.
But there were times I was plummeting to the ground and there was nothing I could do to stop it.
There were times when I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/72393093635308742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=72393093635308742&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/72393093635308742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/72393093635308742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/10/thanks-for-ride-of-my-life.html' title='The Ride'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-F8-byWnNhBU/TqolWpPfu-I/AAAAAAAABMc/MoLFeAlUoMc/s72-c/roller_coaster.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8345387182737742246</id><published>2011-10-27T11:03:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-27T11:35:29.932-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='complicated life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='separation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>One year later... where are we now?!</title><summary type='text'>

I started this post back in August - on my real one year anniversary.  But life has been happening and I never got back around to finishing it.....  so I thought I would start here.  I've been gone so long.  I've gotten on so many times and typed and typed away.  Then just couldn't get myself to post.  Someone recently pointed out to me, that when blogging is your creative outlet, you must blog</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8345387182737742246/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8345387182737742246&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8345387182737742246'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8345387182737742246'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/10/one-year-later-where-are-we-now.html' title='One year later... where are we now?!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Tyws92xuO_4/TqluqggctdI/AAAAAAAABMU/1s2R4vprwV0/s72-c/yinyan1.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-785220071267165578</id><published>2011-07-13T08:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-07-13T08:46:22.636-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leave the light on'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beth hart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>Be your own kind of BEAUTIFUL</title><summary type='text'>My mom gave me a picture frame on my wedding day that says "Be your own kind of Beautiful"
and it's stocked full of pictures of ME being my own quirky "ME"  :)

My mom gave me a necklace on my wedding day.  It's a little silver heart full of diamonds.

My mom gave me a necklace on my younger brother's wedding day (which was before mine).  It's a silver dolphin, because she knows they are my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/785220071267165578/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=785220071267165578&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/785220071267165578'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/785220071267165578'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/07/be-your-own-kind-of-beautiful.html' title='Be your own kind of BEAUTIFUL'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zLbwaU_wuCY/Th0qTOqXzDI/AAAAAAAABMA/vuZu7Lc1p3E/s72-c/shining-light.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8150674093006078033</id><published>2011-06-23T00:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-23T00:33:15.414-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='diagnostic medical sonographer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='job'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sonography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>It's a PaRtY at my house!!!!!!</title><summary type='text'>well....
I mean....
I AM the ONLY one here...
and I'm studying...
and I'm in my PJ's....

BUT - I'm having my own little party right here in my PJ's on my couch!

TODAY was my VERY last day of clinicals!!!
whooooooo hoooooooooo

I am DONE.... D.  O.  N.  E. ... DONE with school!!
No more tests (that I know of)
No more homework
No more 3 AM commutes to random clinical sites...
No more grades
No </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8150674093006078033/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8150674093006078033&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8150674093006078033'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8150674093006078033'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/06/its-party-at-my-house.html' title='It&apos;s a PaRtY at my house!!!!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oDIRk0ie_pE/TgLMaoWbWFI/AAAAAAAABL8/M1kbhClJsQs/s72-c/fireworks.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2199100859245694596</id><published>2011-06-09T22:22:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-09T22:28:35.023-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confusion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='human nature'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='people are evil'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jealousy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='job'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='evil'/><title type='text'>I'm confused.... no wait.... maybe I'm not?</title><summary type='text'>
So I work hard.
I do.
I try to make wise decisions.
I try to plan for a future.
I'm not malicious.
I don't like to hurt people.
It's not in my nature.
{Wait, I'm also NOT a doormat; tread lightly!} 

So why is it that I am now in a position where I can look back at choices I have made, steps I have taken to lead me down the current path I'm on...
I look back and see how one decision led to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2199100859245694596/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2199100859245694596&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2199100859245694596'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2199100859245694596'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/06/im-confused-no-wait-maybe-im-not.html' title='I&apos;m confused.... no wait.... maybe I&apos;m not?'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pxoIlMGPlLI/TfGHjYxsroI/AAAAAAAABL4/jDyHFgRPSkQ/s72-c/1_Stairs_to_Nowhere.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8669873473696984892</id><published>2011-05-27T23:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-27T23:45:52.180-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cats'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dealing with loss'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pets'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='loss of a pet'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='animals'/><title type='text'>How do you say goodbye</title><summary type='text'>
Tonight.... I am lost.
Tonight.... I don't know where I am.
Tonight.... I'm trying to hold to something I can't find.
my perspective
my peace. 
  
When I was a little girl, all I wanted was a white persian cat with blue eyes.  I was almost obsessed with them.  Soon after I got out on my own, I was determined this would be one of my first purchases.  And then I met Fantasia.  She was almost white</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8669873473696984892/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8669873473696984892&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8669873473696984892'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8669873473696984892'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/05/how-do-you-say-goodbye.html' title='How do you say goodbye'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-MWqWvDg8BxM/TeB6pQ7R92I/AAAAAAAABLs/7lJy552q70Y/s72-c/005.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-9021650302928179506</id><published>2011-05-04T11:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-04T11:46:11.873-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motherhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teenagers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pregnancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='raising kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pour your heart out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to raise boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teen pregnancy'/><title type='text'>Who is this kid?  Who is this mom?</title><summary type='text'>At 18, I found out I was pregnant.
Obviously, not being married and fresh out of high school, this was an unplanned big surprise to me...
Coming from a relationship with my mother that was not so perfect at the time, I planned to do everything "BETTER"!! 
I had NO idea what I was in for. 
After his birth, finding a joy and love in a child I never knew I could feel, I have also found a hurt that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/9021650302928179506/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=9021650302928179506&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9021650302928179506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9021650302928179506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/05/who-is-this-kid-who-is-this-mom.html' title='Who is this kid?  Who is this mom?'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-4si6DxBYUpE/TcF1IwqY6FI/AAAAAAAABLg/mjTUKmDgIgc/s72-c/pregnant_belly.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1784606419316608694</id><published>2011-05-03T11:51:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-03T11:57:01.775-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='35 things to do before I&apos;m 35'/><title type='text'>**UPdate** ~35 things to do before I'm 35~</title><summary type='text'>Well - I posted this a year ago......
my 35th birthday has come and gone.....
and as I look over this list - wow - I'm kinda depressed.
Although I did start school this year, which was a big one - I really didn't do much of anything else.
BOO!!!!
regardless.... I'm sharing

Here we go!
(in no particular order...)

1.  Get another tattoo.  One that is relevant...NOT done - if you will recall, when</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1784606419316608694/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1784606419316608694&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1784606419316608694'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1784606419316608694'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/05/update-35-things-to-do-before-im-35.html' title='**UPdate** ~35 things to do before I&apos;m 35~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hp4OKCIQvm4/TcAyP-cOuaI/AAAAAAAABLc/cTLtjf_a9Rk/s72-c/list.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5946086999248713699</id><published>2011-04-26T18:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-04-26T18:51:49.773-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='autocorrect FAIL'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='text'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='autocorrect'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Easter'/><title type='text'>Easter  AUTOCORRECT...... F.A.I.L.!!!</title><summary type='text'>So.......  how was YOUR Easter??
What about ur kiddos?  Did they get everything they wanted from the Easter Bunny?

Please allow me to tell you about our VITAMIN gift!
cuz I AM without a doubt, the BEST Easter Bunny EVAHHHHH!
let me remind you that I'm the SAME mom that sent my child upstairs to get me a blanket a few years ago;  under which were hiding ALL of his Christmas gifts to be wrapped!!
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5946086999248713699/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5946086999248713699&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5946086999248713699'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5946086999248713699'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/04/easter-autocorrect-fail.html' title='Easter  AUTOCORRECT...... F.A.I.L.!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yoX841mQQwM/TbdYXuj3WVI/AAAAAAAABLY/omjaEwn43Lc/s72-c/easter.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4111948655567701542</id><published>2011-04-25T13:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-04-25T13:51:25.794-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='physics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>Brown chicken Brown cow!!!</title><summary type='text'>yeah yeah yeah.... I despise that song too - LOL
but - you can't take me down today!
(even after 78239872234 days of rain!!!) 
I'm doing a happy dance, singing a song, and well.... it's been HOW MANY years since I've done a real live cartwheel??? but I'm doin it!!!
I'm listening to music and cleaning my house!  YEP - I'm in THAT good of a mood!
HA!

BRING ON MONDAY!!!!!!

I just took my final for</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4111948655567701542/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4111948655567701542&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4111948655567701542'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4111948655567701542'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/04/brown-chicken-brown-cow.html' title='Brown chicken Brown cow!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-untbJXtANYo/TbXA1CFuglI/AAAAAAAABLU/aTKLO8-kyGY/s72-c/girl+dance.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5070652057455817105</id><published>2011-04-13T19:27:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-04-13T19:27:08.411-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life lessons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single parent'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growing up'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children having children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sharing scars'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scars'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lost'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lonely'/><title type='text'>The Scars of the Lost</title><summary type='text'>
She was 17 and the good girl always played
But something finally broke in her; and all faith in life was lost
She turned away from friends and family and those who loved her most
The hurt and pain found a door to hell through drugs and alcohol
With a man to hold her late at night she would pretend it wasn’t real
But the pain and the shame were never far away
and soon enough any hope was lost.

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5070652057455817105/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5070652057455817105&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5070652057455817105'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5070652057455817105'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/04/scars-of-lost.html' title='The Scars of the Lost'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YqWwIaoA4oQ/TaY7SDk9L2I/AAAAAAAABLQ/z8jWY-dBcCk/s72-c/girl.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8391518657922684950</id><published>2011-03-08T07:21:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-03-08T07:21:16.488-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='keith urban'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lessons learned'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spring break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='soulmate'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='florida'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='better half'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>While I was OUTTA here...  {Part 2}</title><summary type='text'>Yesterday - I gave you the low down on my trip
Today - I am going to share with you - WHAT I have learned over the past week...
about me...
about my husband...
about marriage..about life... about ... did I mention....MARRIAGE....
and most importantly - about ME!
{I guess because sharing my flaws and mis-haps somehow makes it worth it?}

So...
for those of you who have or haven't noticed... I have</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8391518657922684950/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8391518657922684950&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8391518657922684950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8391518657922684950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/03/while-i-was-outta-here-part-2.html' title='While I was OUTTA here...  {Part 2}'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-HnzEo7jr1Yo/TXWV0It-K_I/AAAAAAAABLM/4V60S9lTv40/s72-c/dinner.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6641666908121120398</id><published>2011-03-07T08:57:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-03-07T08:57:43.417-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spring break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Daytona Beach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bike week'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='florida'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beach'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spur of the moment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spontaneous'/><title type='text'>I'm OUTTA here!!!   {Part 1}</title><summary type='text'>Well guys.....
I'm back  :)
After a quick, spur of the moment vacation - I'm back home safe and sound and ready to SPILL!!!
This post will be a 2-parter....

beginning today {part 1} with my FUN spontaneous road trip to FL!!!

I am a firm believer that things happen for a reason.  If you recall, Preacher T and I never took a honeymoon because right after our wedding, I started school.  PLUS I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6641666908121120398/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6641666908121120398&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6641666908121120398'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6641666908121120398'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/03/im-outta-here-part-1.html' title='I&apos;m OUTTA here!!!   {Part 1}'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-LqZKVwSFFiA/TXRbIVhOH9I/AAAAAAAABK8/uc5ZET7p9Iw/s72-c/beach.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6605947064015701700</id><published>2011-02-26T11:09:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-02-26T11:09:37.897-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my dog at my blog'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>What happened to happily ever after?!!</title><summary type='text'>                                  
Yes - I have been absent from my blog for a bit..... 
LIFE just seems to be too much these days.  (I seem to have lost myself... if anyone finds me, please return me to ME immediately!)


Soooo.... after I received an email from Tara at "My Dog Ate My Bog" - I thought how ironic given her topic of guest post she sent me...

So today - can I present.... without </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6605947064015701700/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6605947064015701700&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6605947064015701700'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6605947064015701700'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/02/what-happened-to-happily-ever-after.html' title='What happened to happily ever after?!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2188493687764858984</id><published>2011-01-20T21:57:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-01-20T21:57:04.008-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='happy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jobs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='OB'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='career changes'/><title type='text'>Movin on UP!</title><summary type='text'>to the East side....
I finally got a piece of the piiiie!!!  LOL

so.....
GUESS WHAT!!!
I'm just here to brag...
just a little...
while still being HUMBLE because I still KNOW my place on the food chain

BUT

I'm all about recognizing baby steps
or ANY steps - when they are in the RIGHT direction!

GUESS WHAT I did today?!!

I did THREE ultrasound scans today ALL BY MYSELF!
that's right!
just me,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2188493687764858984/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2188493687764858984&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2188493687764858984'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2188493687764858984'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/01/movin-on-up.html' title='Movin on UP!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TTj1eq7yC4I/AAAAAAAABKo/Y9jE4hxHWK4/s72-c/jeffersons.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8275200222538069217</id><published>2011-01-10T12:49:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-01-10T12:49:15.658-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='church'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='back to school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change your life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><title type='text'>BRING.  IT.  ON.</title><summary type='text'>Today is my first day back in the saddle.
First day back in class.
It was pretty easy squeezy going back to the classroom.
Watched a movie.
went over the new syllabus...
then it HIT

the new grading scale....
the new online class added on top of real class and 4 days now in a clinical site doing scanning...
ALL the homework...
all the extra time needed this semester...
how CLOSE it is to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8275200222538069217/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8275200222538069217&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8275200222538069217'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8275200222538069217'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2011/01/bring-it-on.html' title='BRING.  IT.  ON.'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TStSwJ2GRSI/AAAAAAAABJs/VwT7-xUIdz8/s72-c/horse.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8158337260124063430</id><published>2010-12-30T10:29:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2010-12-30T14:34:36.546-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='husband'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='butterflies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boyfriends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>I need a new boyfriend!</title><summary type='text'>So I've only been married for four months right.

My first and ONLY marriage (yeah at 34....)

It's ME, Preacher T, my son Z (15) and T's two girls (8 &amp; 11)

Before the wedding.... I had this idea of what life would be like once we were married.
Yeah.... I DO realize some of it was a bunch of fairy tale CROCK - but some of it, REALLY....
well - I guess some of it....   well - it's just been </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8158337260124063430/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8158337260124063430&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8158337260124063430'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8158337260124063430'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/12/i-need-new-boyfriend.html' title='I need a new boyfriend!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TRyZ3bpvR_I/AAAAAAAABJg/aow9s7Aw4a0/s72-c/bf+quote.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1723184885391930928</id><published>2010-12-27T15:20:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-12-27T15:20:47.056-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my heaven'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heaven'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change your life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adjustment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='your heaven'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>approaching the new year...</title><summary type='text'>I have written about change before.. but I'm really pondering this subject the closer we get to beginning a new year.

We WANT growth and change.....but at the same time, there are some things that we want to NEVER change.
And it seems it's always THOSE things that change.

I don't have much more to say about this today............ just that I've talked to several people lately (myself included) </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1723184885391930928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1723184885391930928&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1723184885391930928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1723184885391930928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/12/approaching-new-year.html' title='approaching the new year...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TRkCibqnwKI/AAAAAAAABJU/ttkyE4fAXV8/s72-c/change.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6417871582364499875</id><published>2010-12-14T12:15:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-12-14T12:15:32.615-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='facing the giants'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get Toned'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='football'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='David Nuckols'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='i can do all things'/><title type='text'>Motivational Monday - on Tuesday!!  :)</title><summary type='text'>.... I've already been forewarned about posting this video....
YES, you might just think it's a bit cheesy
BUT - I will tell you....
NO - I will challenge you
Watch it.... watch the ENTIRE video and tell me it doesn't touch something inside you.
I can't watch it without crying
EVERY time.... I swear.
So moving.

The clip is from the movie "Facing the Giants"
it was a low budget movie and it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6417871582364499875/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6417871582364499875&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6417871582364499875'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6417871582364499875'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/12/motivational-monday-on-tuesday.html' title='Motivational Monday - on Tuesday!!  :)'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TQez7FHg7KI/AAAAAAAABJM/nXjyNWkoURE/s72-c/path.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3580715533303725857</id><published>2010-12-13T09:24:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-12-13T09:24:13.837-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='happy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotional'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='true love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jamey johnson'/><title type='text'>Relationships are a funny thing - all of them.</title><summary type='text'>We constantly poison ourselves and just about every relationship we are in.
Friends.
Boy/girl friends.
Family...
and ironically - our relationship with ourselves. 

We constantly find negativity and neglect and poison, your flavor of choice, and we just dump it all around us.  Those that we love are always the ones that get hurt the most.  Oh - we always have the BEST of intentions and there is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3580715533303725857/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3580715533303725857&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3580715533303725857'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3580715533303725857'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/12/relationships-are-funny-thing-all-of.html' title='Relationships are a funny thing - all of them.'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TQY5K3D7QvI/AAAAAAAABJE/pRygo94PQcI/s72-c/love+hate.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5587341766591715930</id><published>2010-12-10T12:36:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2010-12-10T13:13:01.467-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='winter break'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christmas'/><title type='text'>Bring on a BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!</title><summary type='text'>Well....... I did it.
I have made it through the first half of ultrasound school
HOLY COW.
I was so excited to get in......then once in and classes started, I was pretty sure I would never make it out alive.  But now - here I am - HALF WAY through
I just can't believe it!!!
The things I have learned in the short 4 months that I've been there.... well... it really is just truly amazing!
I told </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5587341766591715930/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5587341766591715930&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5587341766591715930'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5587341766591715930'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/12/bring-on-break.html' title='Bring on a BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TQJ7l-GOemI/AAAAAAAABI8/lkOzyJDAUXg/s72-c/rest.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-660704388261535652</id><published>2010-11-29T16:28:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2010-11-29T16:28:40.254-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blessings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thankful'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thanksgiving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><title type='text'>Looking Back...... (no Garth.... not YOU)</title><summary type='text'>    {{Don't you put that song in my head!!!}


I just looked back at posts from a year ago....
My oh MY how much has changed in one short year and OH the blessings I have in my life!!!

Since I haven't had time to post a Thankgiving "thankful" speech
please allow to somewhat do that now.......

First - go back with me a little.......
One year ago - I fell in love with the man I now call my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/660704388261535652/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=660704388261535652&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/660704388261535652'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/660704388261535652'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/11/looking-back-no-garth-not-you.html' title='Looking Back...... (no Garth.... not YOU)'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TPQnPYDawyI/AAAAAAAABI0/dgz3nbWIPRc/s72-c/looking+back.......jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6660057980292484022</id><published>2010-11-04T17:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-04T17:33:22.592-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='halloween'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='be you'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='comfortable in your own skin'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='just be you'/><title type='text'>speaking of Halloween.... I don't wear masks</title><summary type='text'>Someone approached me recently and said "ahhhh.... I love your look tonight.  You're like Rocker Tami"  I'm not gonna lie, it kinda threw me off guard.  I'm sure the look on my face was priceless.  As I stared back at this person, she continued on by saying, "you never know what to expect with you... sometimes your like the quiet innocent girl next door, and sometimes your smokin hot, and tonight</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6660057980292484022/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6660057980292484022&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6660057980292484022'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6660057980292484022'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/11/speaking-of-halloween-i-dont-wear-masks.html' title='speaking of Halloween.... I don&apos;t wear masks'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TNMqxQypMCI/AAAAAAAABIs/B71adNCF4SY/s72-c/mask.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5238993976281090146</id><published>2010-10-20T17:22:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-10-20T17:22:36.888-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confusion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lost'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feel like a stranger'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change your life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='soulmate'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='things i can&apos;t say'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pour your heart out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='true love'/><title type='text'>Loving AND/OR Liking?  I'll take BOTH please!!</title><summary type='text'>
It's Pour Your Heart out Day
Today - I finally had some time to read some blogs.....not JUST spill my guts and emotions all over the screen.  But when I read this post (over at Things I Can't Say) I have to say... I have been having these feelings too and I'm using THIS post and Shell's courage to therapeutically put this out there too - because something's gotta give.  And THIS is why I started</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5238993976281090146/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5238993976281090146&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5238993976281090146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5238993976281090146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/10/loving-andor-liking-ill-take-both.html' title='Loving AND/OR Liking?  I&apos;ll take BOTH please!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8956374723592911810</id><published>2010-10-18T20:35:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-10-18T20:43:53.269-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='complicated life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change your life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='different'/><title type='text'>Things aren't bad... they're just different</title><summary type='text'>When I was a child, I wanted to grow up to be a veterinarian.
That's what I wanted.
I LOOOOVED animals... loved them.  And that's what I thought I could do best with my big ol' heart.
But then I found out that sometimes you have to put animals to sleep.  Sometimes they get sick and they die.  And I couldn't deal with that.
So I changed my mind.
I didn't have the heart for that.

Then I wanted to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8956374723592911810/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8956374723592911810&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8956374723592911810'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8956374723592911810'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/10/things-arent-bad-theyre-just-different.html' title='Things aren&apos;t bad... they&apos;re just different'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TLzoKJm5k3I/AAAAAAAABIo/sOLC1i_IvaA/s72-c/path.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8116733539506120568</id><published>2010-10-16T15:07:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-10-16T15:41:14.920-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='complicated life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eyes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='me in your eyes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='soul'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>I don't see me anymore</title><summary type='text'>When I look at youI don't see me anymoreJust an empty shellthat used to be my home
When you look in my eyestell me who do you seeBecause the girl staring backis not who she used to be
There once was a timewhen I saw me in your eyesI was strong, I was goodand together we could face anything
Life has come in and carried us onand the love that we share and the me that I knewhas changed with the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8116733539506120568/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8116733539506120568&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8116733539506120568'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8116733539506120568'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/10/i-dont-see-me-anymore.html' title='I don&apos;t see me anymore'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TLoEA9m0yUI/AAAAAAAABIk/r7UYbfxKeQM/s72-c/eye+reflection.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3335573344583611622</id><published>2010-10-14T15:19:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-10-14T15:19:42.193-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confusion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='one day you will'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lady antebellum'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='worry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jeremiah 29:11'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='doubt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hurt'/><title type='text'>Some days you won't - but one day you will...</title><summary type='text'>I haven't shared alot lately.
Life has been kinda crazy.
Up and down
Alot of things have changed in my life and every day seems to reveal a new hurdle in some way. 
Don't get me wrong - I'm not in any way saying life is bad. 
Life is great... it just depends on who's eyes your using to look at it.
We all fall victim to putting on those glasses that only reveal what's WRONG with our lives.
While </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3335573344583611622/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3335573344583611622&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3335573344583611622'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3335573344583611622'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/10/some-days-you-wont-but-one-day-you-will.html' title='Some days you won&apos;t - but one day you will...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TLdkxBo2JRI/AAAAAAAABIg/Cs1QoZuoqzo/s72-c/confused.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2047506239897136324</id><published>2010-09-29T23:19:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-29T23:23:41.838-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life lessons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blended family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='criminal minds'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='son'/><title type='text'>Living and dying with the choices we've made...</title><summary type='text'>My mom fusses at me all the time because I share too much.
She tells me I put too much of myself out there
and share TOO much personal information.
My mother is private.  She holds everything in.
That's just her.

I on the other hand - have only this to give.
Myself.
Life lessons.
Things I struggle with, run from, hide from, deal with and sometimes....even LEARN from.
It's all I've got.

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2047506239897136324/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2047506239897136324&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2047506239897136324'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2047506239897136324'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/09/living-and-dying-with-choices-weve-made.html' title='Living and dying with the choices we&apos;ve made...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TKQPu7q6XFI/AAAAAAAABIY/xoCldMBGebE/s72-c/broken.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7700393389918417202</id><published>2010-09-15T20:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-15T20:17:17.602-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='back to school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gray'/><title type='text'>Irony: here's the definition - MY LIFE!</title><summary type='text'>So....
about ONE YEAR ago.... I started this thing called "blogging".  I had NO idea what I was getting into - but I love to write and vent and someone shared this site with me.  I slowly started reading and following and then ultimately GAINING followers.  How COOL!
Before I knew it - I was addicted.

Here's the irony.
When I started blogging - I was in a weird place in life.  Kinda drifting </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7700393389918417202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7700393389918417202&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7700393389918417202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7700393389918417202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/09/irony-heres-definition-my-life.html' title='Irony: here&apos;s the definition - MY LIFE!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TJFu6qZtD-I/AAAAAAAABIA/YPpdj9B3IuY/s72-c/800px-Gray_scale.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2789764681977184148</id><published>2010-08-28T16:34:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-08-28T16:37:09.842-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='missing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Ohhhh - How I have missed thee!</title><summary type='text'>Hello blog world.
ohhhhh how I have missed you!!!
I have SOOOOO much to share!!! 

Rehearsal pictures.... (story and pictures LATER)
wedding is done - I'm MARRIED - I will have pictures!!  (for another blog!)
(AND - I REEEEEEEALLY need to vent! ha)

SO today - I just had a thought....
I shared this quote {MY quote} on facebook and thought I would take a moment to share and vent a little.

I'm </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2789764681977184148/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2789764681977184148&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2789764681977184148'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2789764681977184148'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/08/ohhhh-how-i-have-missed-thee.html' title='Ohhhh - How I have missed thee!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/THl-cVrxJzI/AAAAAAAABH4/X-ZgY7tBKQs/s72-c/i-miss-you-a-lot.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-2663243197282879038</id><published>2010-08-15T23:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-08-15T23:35:06.014-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what if'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Please allow me a multitude of "what if's"</title><summary type='text'>So T made a comment to me the other day... innocently... jokingly... but it has brought on a whirlwind of emotion and more specifically .... a BIT of a freak out!!!!
{{is this what they refer to as cold feet??}

Now don't get me wrong - I'm totally in love and I'm not second guessing at all what we are doing and where we are going...
I LOVE T with all my heart and I can't WAIT to spend the rest </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/2663243197282879038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=2663243197282879038&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2663243197282879038'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/2663243197282879038'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/08/please-allow-me-multitude-of-what-ifs.html' title='Please allow me a multitude of &quot;what if&apos;s&quot;'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TGi7Mo0-WDI/AAAAAAAABHo/WtH8-k64srw/s72-c/cold-feet.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1837048371278303026</id><published>2010-08-04T09:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-08-04T09:46:03.760-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding planning'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='photographers in Bowling Green KY'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='photography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pictures'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Morgan Marie Photography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='engagement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my wedding'/><title type='text'>5.....4.......3.....2...1</title><summary type='text'>HOLY COW - I can NOT believe how fast things are slipping up on me!!!!!!!

Baby Z started back to school today...
I start ultrasound classes in 12 days...
Wedding is in 17 days...

Engagement pics are done - so I thought I would take a minute to share some of those with ya!
still a million little things to take care of...
music cd's
finalize the food menu
finalize the flower order 
I don't even </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1837048371278303026/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1837048371278303026&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1837048371278303026'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1837048371278303026'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/08/54321.html' title='5.....4.......3.....2...1'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TFl6xUsjn2I/AAAAAAAABG4/qiMFfwKSHtY/s72-c/Tammy+%26+Adam-78.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6006139634576162906</id><published>2010-07-16T12:34:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-07-16T12:34:15.751-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='epic fail'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fail'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friday'/><title type='text'>When I jumped - I landed flat on my face...</title><summary type='text'>Is it Monday?!!??

So far today - I feel as though I've struck out.
Beating my OWN head against the wall.
Some days are more frugal than others and today is not one of them.

Some days I feel like God is holding my hand and taking me down a path
and some days I feel like I just smashed a wall.

Some days I feel like people get me 
and some days I feel like EVERYONE thinks I have lost my mind.

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6006139634576162906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6006139634576162906&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6006139634576162906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6006139634576162906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/07/when-i-jumped-i-landed-flat-on-my-face.html' title='When I jumped - I landed flat on my face...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TECVFEL45sI/AAAAAAAABGw/uwZiPVVXKuo/s72-c/fail.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3177262687339689725</id><published>2010-07-15T15:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-07-15T15:13:07.868-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leap of faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='back to school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='job'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='engagement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>gave up the ghost.... I'm gonna JUMP!</title><summary type='text'>

Sometimes...
you just have to take the leap and build your wings on the way down.




Kobi Yamada



You know how you go through life and you take little small "leaps of faith" here and there.

Well - effective today - (actually I've been leading up to this for a while...)
anyway - effective today - I'm taking like FOURTEEN leaps of faith all at one time!

Yes that's right.
Throwing caution to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3177262687339689725/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3177262687339689725&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3177262687339689725'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3177262687339689725'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/07/gave-up-ghost-im-gonna-jump.html' title='gave up the ghost.... I&apos;m gonna JUMP!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TD9apilAUOI/AAAAAAAABGo/Wj4qzyJHT3c/s72-c/jump.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6798958069237151645</id><published>2010-07-02T12:09:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-07-02T12:14:02.361-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding planning'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>just another little wedding update...</title><summary type='text'>with some sneak peaks......and a Rated "R" clip!  ha ha

Wedding update (other than I'm BEAT!):**sneak peak pictures included!!*note:  planning a wedding in 8 weeks..... while working full time, working part time and getting ready to start school.......HIGHLY NOT RECOMMENDED!  ha ha

Church - check

Reception venue - check

Minister - check (no... it's not Billy Gibbons...)

Music selected.......</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6798958069237151645/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6798958069237151645&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6798958069237151645'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6798958069237151645'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/07/just-another-little-wedding-update.html' title='just another little wedding update...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TC4JWa32JYI/AAAAAAAABGA/bNj9dI0z2Fg/s72-c/worn+out.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3733874659570905842</id><published>2010-06-28T13:54:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-28T14:19:51.246-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='billy gibbons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='zz top'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='minister'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding date'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my wedding'/><title type='text'>Please send money......</title><summary type='text'>or time....
money or time - I'll take either today!  LOL

Peace out!
I'm outta here! (wink)

GoodNESS!!!!!!
who KNEW?!?!!!!!!
I'm all about doing a "budget" wedding - but GOSH stuff is EXPENSIVE!!!
we are still 8 weeks out and it just keeps adding up.
I had NOOOO idea!!!

The courthouse is looking more and more tempting!!!
(nahhhhhhhhhhhh)

here's the update
things are moving right along ........</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3733874659570905842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3733874659570905842&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3733874659570905842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3733874659570905842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/please-send-money.html' title='Please send money......'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TCjvApboiLI/AAAAAAAABF4/gqlOqKpt3cA/s72-c/bride+bike.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3345911365797827399</id><published>2010-06-25T00:29:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-25T00:33:12.545-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='August 21'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='2010'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='finding love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wedding date'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='engagement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my wedding'/><title type='text'>and without further adieu.....</title><summary type='text'>
GUESS WHO'S GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anybody been wondering where I've been hiding???under a rock?at the funny farm?in jail for killing my TEENAGE holy terror???
NOPE!
I've been getting engaged!!!!!!yup!That's right!Preacher T proposed!
Anybody wanna know about it??????huhhhhhh - huuuhhhhh.....any....one....??????
So here's how the story goes{hope he doesn't kill me!}
Last Saturday I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3345911365797827399/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3345911365797827399&amp;isPopup=true' title='14 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3345911365797827399'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3345911365797827399'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/and-without-further-adieu.html' title='and without further adieu.....'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TCQs7WXwn9I/AAAAAAAABFo/QGwM_ZNgvIU/s72-c/wedding.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>14</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4075290313682047928</id><published>2010-06-18T16:25:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T16:25:44.004-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change your life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='criticism'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='approval'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advice'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='edit life'/><title type='text'>Approval NOT needed.</title><summary type='text'>
I have learned something ELSE about myself.
...........
..........
........

wanna know?????

here's the secret..........

I don't take too kindly to your criticism!  HA!
or being told that I'm wrong
or that I believe wrong....
or that I'm doing it wrong....
There I said it.

And......now you know....

In the words of Eric Cartman "I do what I want!"
ha!
"ain't nobody gonna hold me down.... oh </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4075290313682047928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4075290313682047928&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4075290313682047928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4075290313682047928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/approval-not-needed.html' title='Approval NOT needed.'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TBvZzE9W1xI/AAAAAAAABFg/TnUDGYpRlR4/s72-c/edit+face.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6594802087416522057</id><published>2010-06-16T12:28:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-16T13:59:37.387-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='complicated life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hope'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='complications'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>sometimes... life gets a bit complicated</title><summary type='text'>I could give you a play by play of every minute... of every day... of my life... and if I did - you would be like "WHAT?!!!"  "How?!!"  "say that AGAIN!!!!"

So - even after what I'm about to tell you... don't worry.  I'm ok with life being complicated.  Wanna know why?  because complication is only in the eye of the beholder  ;-)
and my eye tries to avoid it!  ha ha

I believe in taking life ONE</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6594802087416522057/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6594802087416522057&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6594802087416522057'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6594802087416522057'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/sometimes-life-gets-bit-complicated.html' title='sometimes... life gets a bit complicated'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TBkFZnJLOaI/AAAAAAAABFY/9wtSTRFf1_I/s72-c/giraffe.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6351743680548835275</id><published>2010-06-13T23:28:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-13T23:35:04.109-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>~Motivational Monday~   calling all my prayer warriors!</title><summary type='text'>Happy Monday to all....I've thought and thought and thought about how to approach this topic without offending or violating anyone... so here goes - I'm gonna try my best.Some of you read my blog on blogger... some of you are personal friends... some of you follow via Facebook.  Some of you have followed since.... well - the beginning of my blog.. Some have followed since the beginning of me and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6351743680548835275/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6351743680548835275&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6351743680548835275'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6351743680548835275'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/motivational-monday-calling-all-my.html' title='~Motivational Monday~   calling all my prayer warriors!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TBWqSdLtETI/AAAAAAAABFA/BFYZqomVF8c/s72-c/Washed_Away.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7349768450608499977</id><published>2010-06-09T11:24:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-09T14:10:06.950-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='trials'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blessings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='death'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken and spilled out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='broken'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><title type='text'>Some days are just harder than others...........</title><summary type='text'>Have you ever met or do you know someone (or is it YOU) who is constantly bitter and angry and lashing out at life.  They feel like they are being punished for something or that God just doesn't care about them - or has passed them by?  
Or maybe its not even all the time.... 
maybe its just occasionally...
maybe its just a rut now and then...

but then I guess - don't we all have days like that?</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7349768450608499977/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7349768450608499977&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7349768450608499977'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7349768450608499977'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/some-days-are-just-harder-than-others.html' title='Some days are just harder than others...........'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TA-_05llw_I/AAAAAAAABE4/8Jhq8Zr7G20/s72-c/blessings.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7379079905437581633</id><published>2010-06-08T10:07:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-08T10:09:34.853-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='things I love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Willie Nelson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post it note tuesday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='NKOTB'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Iroc Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='90&apos;s'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='PB and J'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post its'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='flashbacks'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='80&apos;s'/><title type='text'>~Post it Note Tuesday~</title><summary type='text'>


This is to all the girls....uh hem (WILLIE!) ...girls THINGS... I've loved before.....Thanks Willie........


Welcome back to Post it Note Tuesday!!!!!!!!As always......click {{here}} to make ur own postiesand click {{here}} to link up with Supah and play along!!!!!Happy PINT!!!!!!!!
and here's to the things I USED to (and maybe still do) LOVE (a little!)
{{Spotted at recent Alan Jackson </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7379079905437581633/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7379079905437581633&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7379079905437581633'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7379079905437581633'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/post-it-note-tuesday.html' title='~Post it Note Tuesday~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TA5PHE1aTCI/AAAAAAAABCg/GixYTZF614Y/s72-c/willie.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7126037617759662412</id><published>2010-06-07T12:07:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-07T14:14:38.077-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivational monday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>~ Motivational Monday ~</title><summary type='text'>And now I would like to take you back to your regularly scheduled programming…..



Remember back when I did a motivational Monday every week?!  Where the crap did THAT go?!  {shrugs…}Well….I'm back now……..
Life took some crazy twists and turns… ups…downs…bends and breaks…. But here I am – still standing….and for THAT – I would like to share a little bit of motivation for this lovely sun-shiny </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7126037617759662412/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7126037617759662412&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7126037617759662412'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7126037617759662412'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/motivational-monday.html' title='~ Motivational Monday ~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TA1DzbwlDcI/AAAAAAAABCY/CzgVZFDI0zs/s72-c/girl-holding-sun.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6140410320240088017</id><published>2010-06-04T09:35:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-04T09:35:37.973-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adam sandler'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='orientation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='back to school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ultrasound'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='billy madison'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sonography'/><title type='text'>Back to school..Back to school..to prove to dad I'm not a fool..</title><summary type='text'>
It's FRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIIIDAY!!!!!!!
It's June 4th, 2010
ORIENTATION DAY!!!!!!!!!

For all you newbies to my blog - I've applied and been waiting to get into sonography (ultrasound) school.  I found out 2 weeks ago that I'm IN!!!
Today is orientation......
I'm sooooooooo EXCITED!!!!

EXCITED I got in....

EXCITED to finally have an answer and a direction

&amp; EXCITED to get a schedule today to know </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6140410320240088017/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6140410320240088017&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6140410320240088017'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6140410320240088017'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/back-to-schoolback-to-schoolto-prove-to.html' title='Back to school..Back to school..to prove to dad I&apos;m not a fool..'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://i358.photobucket.com/albums/oo22/iamharriet/ff/th_button1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-141751616935320104</id><published>2010-06-03T06:53:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-03T06:53:08.094-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unconditional love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='true love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Love is a gift.....do you give &amp; receive?</title><summary type='text'>All of my life....just like every other ridiculously hopeless romantic girl out there......I have waited and searched and dreamed of falling in love....

You've thought about it......

you've played it out in your head....

you've dreamed about it......

you've watched ALL those movies and all those couples....

Harry and Sally (When Harry met Sally); Mandy Moore and Shane West (A Walk to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/141751616935320104/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=141751616935320104&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/141751616935320104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/141751616935320104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/love-is-giftdo-you-give-receive.html' title='Love is a gift.....do you give &amp; receive?'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TAcwWUvKIqI/AAAAAAAABCM/rX_cZWjfkkM/s72-c/heart+lips.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-799574219136336000</id><published>2010-06-02T09:55:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-02T09:55:45.608-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bicycle ride'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='church'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><title type='text'>The Bicycle Ride</title><summary type='text'>
When I first met ChristIt seemed as though life was rather like a bike ride, But it was a tandem bike, And I noticed that Christ Was in the back helping me pedal. 
I don't know just when it was that He suggested we change places, But life has not been the same since.
When I had control, I knew the way,It was rather boring, but predictable...It was the shortest distance between two points.
But </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/799574219136336000/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=799574219136336000&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/799574219136336000'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/799574219136336000'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/bicycle-ride.html' title='The Bicycle Ride'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TAZw2RAdD7I/AAAAAAAABB8/eL8i8EtTx8E/s72-c/bike.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6181893240810429996</id><published>2010-06-01T11:58:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-06-01T14:23:16.471-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='loss of a loved one'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='death'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='funeral'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dream'/><title type='text'>~I'll See You in My Dreams~</title><summary type='text'>I had a dream last night that I got to hold you one more time
I could feel the warmth of your body nestled against mine
I could smell that smell that can only be described as “you”
There was no time, no clock, and no end
There were no words, no laughing or crying
Just us…. Just me and you.

As I lay there smiling, freed from life and escaped from reality
My entire world seemed to be right again
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6181893240810429996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6181893240810429996&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6181893240810429996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6181893240810429996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/06/ill-see-you-in-my-dreams.html' title='~I&apos;ll See You in My Dreams~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/TAUyfsHF8EI/AAAAAAAABB0/Y5m8Qj3IgPo/s72-c/sleep.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-9176600355872835547</id><published>2010-05-27T11:24:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-27T11:24:21.848-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='liberal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='church'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conservative'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='religion'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christian'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boyfriends'/><title type='text'>Hello...God... are you there?!</title><summary type='text'>I recently found a new friend!
I got a visit from Chantelle at The Fabulous Life on yesterday's post of pouring my heart out.
Gosh Chantelle - I'm sorry that my first post you visited seemed to be so down.
That really was not my intent.
I did spend some time pouring out MY heart and when all was said and done, I realized how SAD it sounded  (if you missed it - find it HERE - Who I Am?)
I DO have </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/9176600355872835547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=9176600355872835547&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9176600355872835547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9176600355872835547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/hellogod-are-you-there.html' title='Hello...God... are you there?!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_6YAsas3QI/AAAAAAAABBs/Ey_v5hcjLAU/s72-c/ask+god.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4581081426604150137</id><published>2010-05-26T09:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-26T09:21:29.836-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pour your heart out'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='in love'/><title type='text'>Who I am... pouring my heart out</title><summary type='text'>
You know those girls that you come across... the ones that have these HIGH hopes and dreams of a lifetime filled with HAPPINESS.....of finding a man to sweep them off their feet.  A man who will work hard and pay the bills and do the yard work while their sweet little wife is cooking dinner.  The man who tells you every day (or at least every other!  ha) how lucky he is and treats you like you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4581081426604150137/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4581081426604150137&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4581081426604150137'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4581081426604150137'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/who-i-am-pouring-my-heart-out.html' title='Who I am... pouring my heart out'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6771318878537951685</id><published>2010-05-25T11:12:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-25T11:12:29.511-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='you complete me'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='party hat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sonography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='par-T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='just the two of us'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='austin powers'/><title type='text'>Post it Note Tuesday ~ put on ya par-T hat! ~</title><summary type='text'>




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</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6771318878537951685/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6771318878537951685&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6771318878537951685'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6771318878537951685'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/post-it-note-tuesday-put-on-ya-par-t.html' title='Post it Note Tuesday ~ put on ya par-T hat! ~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_vxRGC8HTI/AAAAAAAABAE/oFXI571-hXI/s72-c/5-25+TA+DA.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3144026296467631848</id><published>2010-05-21T13:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-21T13:33:39.673-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='keith urban'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='five question friday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='chris knight'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mama m'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='apps'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='glue'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Oprah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='iphone'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stickers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vomit'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jerrod niemann'/><title type='text'>Five Question Friday   5/21/2010</title><summary type='text'>

Rules for Five Question Friday: Copy and paste the following questions to your blog, answer them, then c'mon back to link up (on Friday, of course!). If you'd like, the blog hop code is available for you to grab! I would be a very grateful mama, if you'd link back to me, Mama M.!


If you don't have a blog, but want to play along...feel free to answer the questions in the comments of this post,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3144026296467631848/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3144026296467631848&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3144026296467631848'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3144026296467631848'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/five-question-friday-5212010.html' title='Five Question Friday   5/21/2010'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5191011585786369815</id><published>2010-05-21T10:38:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-21T10:39:29.713-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the life of sass'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pixie momma'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='batcrap crazy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='daffy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prayer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mission monkey'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><title type='text'>Prayer for ducks and monkeys... it's all I have to give.</title><summary type='text'>I read a quote today on facebook
and it said:

"What you pray about is what you depend on God for.  What you don't pray about shows where you think you don't need Him"
My thoughts and prayers go out to you today Daffy!!!
(For those of you who don't know - she lost her sister unexpectedly.)
For more details, please go visit her and show her LOTS of love and support


 

I have seen a love and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5191011585786369815/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5191011585786369815&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5191011585786369815'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5191011585786369815'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/prayer-for-ducks-and-monkeys-its-all-i.html' title='Prayer for ducks and monkeys... it&apos;s all I have to give.'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_airh9BEVI/AAAAAAAAA_8/djwbNebU4zw/s72-c/monkey_and_stuff_duck_2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8676796646119900523</id><published>2010-05-20T14:06:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-20T14:06:12.956-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lover lover'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jerrod niemann'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jamey johnson'/><title type='text'>ummmm.... I think I fell in love at lunch today!</title><summary type='text'>Have you heard this song?
heard it on the radio at lunch today and had to share!
love the song
love the video
love his HAT
love his guitar strap
love his voice
LOVE that bass in the background harmonizing
aaaaaaaaand.........
LOVE THAT CAR!!!!!!!!!

Rock ON Jerrod Niemann
who IS this guy?????
and WAIT - is THAT Jamey Johnson???????

ok - after you watch the song video - watch the interview with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8676796646119900523/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8676796646119900523&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8676796646119900523'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8676796646119900523'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/ummmm-i-think-i-fell-in-love-at-lunch.html' title='ummmm.... I think I fell in love at lunch today!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_WHTHPSoXI/AAAAAAAAA_0/x-YqNbDy97I/s72-c/jerrod-niemann.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-988312902434665518</id><published>2010-05-20T10:33:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-20T10:33:41.154-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='waitressing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='shoes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='walk a mile in my shoes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='restaraunt'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new job'/><title type='text'>Wanna walk a mile in MY shoes?!</title><summary type='text'>CHECK...
CHECK... CHECK...
put a fork in me - I'm done!!!!

Training day #1 is done.....Training day #2 is done...
These are the days I start back at square one in a new place...new job.... but not JUST a "new" job - an ADDITIONAL job!
It sux being the "new guy" 
However - I will say - everyone has been NOTHING BUT NICE and that helps tremendously!
Because throughout the experience, I have been </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/988312902434665518/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=988312902434665518&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/988312902434665518'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/988312902434665518'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/wanna-walk-mile-in-my-shoes.html' title='Wanna walk a mile in MY shoes?!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_VN817btpI/AAAAAAAAA_s/X8IweZYsLwM/s72-c/shoes.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7662100147703478033</id><published>2010-05-18T09:50:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-18T09:56:12.521-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post it note tuesday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post its'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new job'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post-it Tuesday'/><title type='text'>Post It Note Tuesday ~the NEW job!~</title><summary type='text'>
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{{In case you didn't get that reference - please see my post regarding regression and milestones!}}

{{Workin on my 35 things to do before I'm 35.... debt free and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7662100147703478033/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7662100147703478033&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7662100147703478033'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7662100147703478033'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/post-it-note-tuesday-new-job.html' title='Post It Note Tuesday ~the NEW job!~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_Khz6wEEdI/AAAAAAAAA-0/RIh43X_q2OM/s72-c/5-18+day+1.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6626205092565977428</id><published>2010-05-16T23:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-16T23:13:54.439-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love songs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love it is a river'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the rose'/><title type='text'>Can YOU put love into words?</title><summary type='text'> As girls, we search and hope and dream our entire lives to find that one true love.  Do YOU believe in TRUE LOVE?  How do you define love?for me....it makes me strive to be a better me, yet accepts me as I amit gives me hope and fills me with joyit gives me peace in growing oldbecause with my counterpart, I finally feel complete...
Its a feeling of vulnerability that you would never trust with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6626205092565977428/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6626205092565977428&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6626205092565977428'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6626205092565977428'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/can-you-put-love-into-words.html' title='Can YOU put love into words?'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S_DCP-PC5QI/AAAAAAAAA9s/vwLFDYDdui8/s72-c/love-2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6815209829807793979</id><published>2010-05-14T09:28:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-14T11:23:25.652-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>HaPpY BiRtHdAy Baby Z!</title><summary type='text'>Exactly 15 years ago and right exactly at this moment - I was giving birth for the first and likely ONLY time of my life!  
And it was Mother's Day.  WHAT a present.......
I was 19 years old and totally clueless about how my world was about to be changed.  I had spent the last nine months carrying this baby around... making some small changes in my life obviously, but NOOO idea all the changes </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6815209829807793979/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6815209829807793979&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6815209829807793979'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6815209829807793979'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/happy-birthday-baby-z.html' title='HaPpY BiRtHdAy Baby Z!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-1d8CAixYI/AAAAAAAAA9k/KPMFQ4gxR3U/s72-c/z.bmp' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5926364260224804362</id><published>2010-05-11T23:39:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-11T23:57:10.101-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='progression'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insane'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insanity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='preacher T'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unconditional love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='regression'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>Progression...Regression... with a smidge of INSANITY!</title><summary type='text'>Progression:  The act of progressing forward;  onward movement.  (which way IS forward?  who decides that?  what if your forward goes around a curve... then are you going the wrong way?)

Regression:  The act of going back to a previous place or state; return or reversion.  (why is this considered a bad thing?  what if the previous place was a GOOD place?)

Insanity:  A derangement of the mind.  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5926364260224804362/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5926364260224804362&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5926364260224804362'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5926364260224804362'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/progressionregression-with-smidge-of.html' title='Progression...Regression... with a smidge of INSANITY!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-ot-ePN9lI/AAAAAAAAA9U/2gbdgz1In7c/s72-c/traintracks.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1842909501605554079</id><published>2010-05-11T00:47:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-11T00:47:49.815-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='meds'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='going crazy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post it note tuesday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='xanax'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post its'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='first lady'/><title type='text'>~Post It note Tuesday~  I'm all OVER the place!</title><summary type='text'>

It's Post It Note Tuesday!!!!MAN I have missed these crazy little posties....
ON with the show!!!!
{and make sure you go link up at Supah's!} WHYYYYYYYYYYY  you ask?????



HEE HEE HEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!
Thanks T!
love you!  ;-)













WAIT - WHAT?!!!  Get ur mind outta the gutter!!!!!!!


AnyMED.......

HUH??!!!!!  Where was I?
oh yeah........
AND A BOTTLE OF WINE!!!
HOPINGand PRAYINGfor a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1842909501605554079/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1842909501605554079&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1842909501605554079'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1842909501605554079'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/post-it-note-tuesday-im-all-over-place.html' title='~Post It note Tuesday~  I&apos;m all OVER the place!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-jliynz66I/AAAAAAAAA7E/f634yyzKn3g/s72-c/superstickies%2874%29.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8723207322090833673</id><published>2010-05-10T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-10T10:09:22.762-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bleeding heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wounded heart'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='breakups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wounds'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heartbreak'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feelings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sharing scars'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='scars'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sad'/><title type='text'>~Sharing Scars~</title><summary type='text'>
It's 2 AM, and I can't sleepjust frozen in my bed staringout my cold dark windowholding my breath as each car passes bysoftly praying he'll come back
Be open he says...Talk to me he says...Trust me he says...
But when the talking is doneand the wounds are openand I have given all I can give All I find is myself alone with nothing but the blood
being swallowed by the night 
So much was saidSo </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8723207322090833673/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8723207322090833673&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8723207322090833673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8723207322090833673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/sharing-scars.html' title='~Sharing Scars~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-elcO5C6tI/AAAAAAAAA68/7zLtr33aTUg/s72-c/bleeding+heart.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-9000431972672710996</id><published>2010-05-07T09:10:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-07T09:10:45.325-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single parent'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teenagers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='followers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='follow me friday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men are from mars'/><title type='text'>~Follow Friday~ and a little bit about me!!</title><summary type='text'>
Welcome to a SPECIAL edition of Friday Follow celebration hosted by One 2 Try, Hearts Make Families and Midday Escapades! We invite you to join us every Friday to get more blog followers and to follow other interesting blogs. It is all about sharing and having fun.They are having a GREAT giveaway right now - so run over and visit them and play along.Also - link up and see if you can add some </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/9000431972672710996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=9000431972672710996&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9000431972672710996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/9000431972672710996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/follow-friday-and-little-bit-about-me.html' title='~Follow Friday~ and a little bit about me!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3235466590224130255</id><published>2010-05-06T08:42:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-06T08:46:10.555-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confessions from a working mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Venice Italy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='NYC'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tahiti'/><title type='text'>Top 3 Thursday ~ where do YOU want to escape to ~</title><summary type='text'>


I'm playing along with Confessions from a working mom!!!   Partly cause I haven't played in a while and PARTLY because I'm all about this topic.......I'm all about some dreaming today......

Each week, The (Un)Experienced Mom and Confessions will pick a category, then ask you to share your Top 3 thoughts on it. We hope you'll play along with us!

This week, the question is...

Where are the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3235466590224130255/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3235466590224130255&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3235466590224130255'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3235466590224130255'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/top-3-thursday-where-do-you-want-to.html' title='Top 3 Thursday ~ where do YOU want to escape to ~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-LEHhrXrgI/AAAAAAAAA6c/wjoVoKGNH-g/s72-c/NYC1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-7257398354277346642</id><published>2010-05-05T10:35:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-05T11:30:11.308-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prince'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men are from mars'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marriage'/><title type='text'>Men ARE from MaRs - WE are the sane ones!!!</title><summary type='text'>





{I originally posted this last night - but then I was told *cough cough* REALIZED that it might have come off a bit harsh.... so please allow me to explain}
After dating many different types of men and watching my friends go through many different sorts of break ups and heart aches and just stupid stupid fights... I feel that I am somewhat of an expert  (experienced ASS HAT as Daffy would </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/7257398354277346642/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=7257398354277346642&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7257398354277346642'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/7257398354277346642'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/men-are-from-mars.html' title='Men ARE from MaRs - WE are the sane ones!!!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-Gc9Q8ZkhI/AAAAAAAAA6U/zBpb-2_Nj0Y/s72-c/alien+heart.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-3703832323567682539</id><published>2010-05-04T10:02:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-05-04T10:02:32.849-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I&apos;ll be the one'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fairy tales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='single'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unconditional love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Waren Haynes'/><title type='text'>fairy tales do NOT inspire me  - YOU inspire me to write my OWN fairy tale!</title><summary type='text'>People come into our lives... 
and people run out....
You never know how long someone will stay, so treasure every moment you get to spend with your special friends, with your family, with ALL the ones that mean so much.  You never know when time will move on and their presence in your life will be done.
You just have no control over the big picture.
But remember this......everyone you surround </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/3703832323567682539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=3703832323567682539&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3703832323567682539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/3703832323567682539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/05/fairy-tales-do-not-inspire-me-you.html' title='fairy tales do NOT inspire me  - YOU inspire me to write my OWN fairy tale!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S-A1WFuzeoI/AAAAAAAAA58/QPW1ITAxxT0/s72-c/inspiration.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6330780994334482296</id><published>2010-04-26T23:38:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-26T23:38:06.488-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='SupahMommy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='post-it Tuesday'/><title type='text'>~Post It note Tuesday~ shameless self promoting</title><summary type='text'>


I'm sorry - I'm asking your forgiveness up front - cause I'm kinda cheating today......


XOXOXOXO
to all my bloggies!!!!!!!
Hope you all have a great week  :)</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6330780994334482296/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6330780994334482296&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6330780994334482296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6330780994334482296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/post-it-note-tuesday-shameless-self.html' title='~Post It note Tuesday~ shameless self promoting'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S9ZphJRD_xI/AAAAAAAAA5M/tKh4P421YJ4/s72-c/superstickies%2868%29.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-22147367184711266</id><published>2010-04-26T23:15:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-26T23:19:51.558-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='passion of the christ'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='god won&apos;t give you more than you can handle'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='then came the morning'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hope'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Pit'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='believe'/><title type='text'>~ I hope you find your perspective ~ I had lost mine ~</title><summary type='text'>Finding my perspective in life sometimes poses a big challenge for me.
I don't know what has been up with me lately, but I seem to have fallen into some sort of pit that I could NOT climb out of.  And the worst part is once I was there and comfy... I proceeded to pull in any negative attitude I could find and roll around with all my past mistakes and current issues in my life.  Me and my bad </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/22147367184711266/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=22147367184711266&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/22147367184711266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/22147367184711266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/i-hope-you-find-your-perspective-i-had.html' title='~ I hope you find your perspective ~ I had lost mine ~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S9ZkJdo7ZhI/AAAAAAAAA5E/feSWlQ63kp4/s72-c/believe.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-5868779478152327952</id><published>2010-04-23T09:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-23T09:06:36.502-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s up to something'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God&apos;s up to something lyrics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New beginnings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='listen'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rock bottom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clay underwood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new beginnigs lyrics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hit rock bottom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God speaks'/><title type='text'>Shhhh.... just be quiet, pay attention and listen!</title><summary type='text'>I really don't have or can't say much this morning.......
I am simply going to tell you the events - and how I know there is a GOD!
alot of stuff is going on in my head... and so - as always - when things are confusing and I begin to question or wonder why this or what that ..... GOD IS ALWAYS there!!!!!

I'm not going to write this big huge blog.....or get all emotional because I have been awake</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/5868779478152327952/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=5868779478152327952&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5868779478152327952'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/5868779478152327952'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/shhhh-just-be-quiet-pay-attention-and.html' title='Shhhh.... just be quiet, pay attention and listen!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S9GpW0KFTBI/AAAAAAAAA48/RW75PO05Fvc/s72-c/rose+bud.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-269731698754800006</id><published>2010-04-21T15:27:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-21T15:27:35.062-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='going crazy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='payback'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boys'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='aunt flo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='my kids drive me crazy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teenagers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Z'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='karma is a bitch'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='karma'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='period'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='raising kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to raise boys'/><title type='text'>The joys of raising a boy mixed in with a little payback!</title><summary type='text'>So - I was visiting ol' MOOOOOOG yesterday and he had this post about how he hates his teenagers (who aren't even teenagers yet!) and I told him - I have a few funny stories to tell about my teenager.
some COOL things for ya to look forward to Mooooooog!!!  {{HUGS}}

The bonus is .......  

single MOM 

raising a teenage BOY!!!!!!!!!

(uhhhhh hummmm....)

some things...well.......some things are </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/269731698754800006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=269731698754800006&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/269731698754800006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/269731698754800006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/joys-of-raising-boy-mixed-in-with.html' title='The joys of raising a boy mixed in with a little payback!'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S89fAmBHj4I/AAAAAAAAA4s/C7e7hr7QJEE/s72-c/kid.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-4960760806486071022</id><published>2010-04-20T10:40:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-20T13:48:34.887-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='abs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='35 things to do before I&apos;m 35'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='school'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fitness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Beth Moore'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sonography'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work out'/><title type='text'>~~35 THINGS TO DO BEFORE I AM 35~~</title><summary type='text'>I visited a new blog today, http://momyawp.blogspot.com/ , and on her blog, she has a list of things she wants to do before she is 26.
I thought - what a GREAT idea.
I just turned 34....
35 will likely be a tough milestone for me.......I mean wow.... it's so weird to think back and remember as a child when you couldn't WAIT to be 16, and you couldn't WAIT to be 18, and then 21...  and then what?!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/4960760806486071022/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=4960760806486071022&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4960760806486071022'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/4960760806486071022'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/35-things-to-do-before-i-am-35.html' title='~~35 THINGS TO DO BEFORE I AM 35~~'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S83K1c5s4mI/AAAAAAAAA4k/SBEtg6nFfao/s72-c/list.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-8843377755559885940</id><published>2010-04-19T10:31:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-19T10:31:11.500-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='trust'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>a change is gonna come..</title><summary type='text'>Time marches on....
things change...
people grow and change...
people that have meant the world to you - change and move on and your left standing in the dust wondering where they went and what happened.
It's just life.
Sometimes I find myself sitting around wondering WHY?!
why do things have to change?
why do people that mean so much and have affected you in so many ways, disappear?
Why?!
I know</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/8843377755559885940/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=8843377755559885940&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8843377755559885940'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/8843377755559885940'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/change-is-gonna-come.html' title='a change is gonna come..'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S8xyfQNZXLI/AAAAAAAAA4Y/XvNGsXTnlJo/s72-c/palm.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-6388560742881878609</id><published>2010-04-16T12:57:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-16T13:01:08.151-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jesus carrying'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lady antebellum'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gods hands'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='never alone'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='when I weak then i am strong'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jesus hands'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='christian'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='God'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='struggles'/><title type='text'>On those weak days.... Lord make me strong.</title><summary type='text'>Some days I’m weak
But, some days I’m strong….

Some days I know
all the right things to say 
But some days I struggle to know
what to feel

Some days I feel like all the world is right
and everything is as it should be
But most days I’m impatient
and nothing moves in the time that I think it should

Some days there is no one, 
with a single right word…
But some days all you have to do is speak
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/6388560742881878609/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=6388560742881878609&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6388560742881878609'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/6388560742881878609'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/on-those-weak-days-lord-make-me-strong.html' title='On those weak days.... Lord make me strong.'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S8ikLAJ1BwI/AAAAAAAAA4I/SSlPyXWM4JQ/s72-c/hands.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-1118149368742320517</id><published>2010-04-13T16:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-13T16:13:14.663-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pigeon forge'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tn'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='swimming'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='horses'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='horseback riding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='vacation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='babies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='waterslides'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gatlinburg'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='raising kids'/><title type='text'>Vacation - the PUREST form of birth control</title><summary type='text'>Hey guys!!!
Hi there!
Did ya miss me????
~~BIG WAVE~~

I've been on vacation AND celebrating my birthday!
(hopefully I'm back now)
and here to tell ya ALL about it!


We journeyed down to Gatlinburg last week......all FIVE of us.... and for us - this means over 4 hours or so IN THE VEHICLE with 3 children  :)   One boy - two girls.
~Is Mary Poppins singing in your ear yet?  No?  not yet?  Let me </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/1118149368742320517/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=1118149368742320517&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1118149368742320517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/1118149368742320517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/vacation-purest-form-of-birth-control.html' title='Vacation - the PUREST form of birth control'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S8TDoLu6_sI/AAAAAAAAA3I/4E0MmTH-4Po/s72-c/the+fam.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958307454171753891.post-654082780381852830</id><published>2010-04-05T11:49:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-05T11:49:21.828-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motorcycles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spring is in the air'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lessons learned'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bike'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='brothers'/><title type='text'>Spring is in the air.... vrooom vroom...</title><summary type='text'>So - last summer, my mom took a class and got her motorcycle license - right?!  yeah - MY MOM!  My sweet, precious, tiny, 5 foot tall, angel winged, halo wearin' mom took the class, license in hand, and bought bikes for her and my dad.  And guess what........I don't know that she has ridden it the first time after getting her license... in fact she thinks she has probably "forgotten" how to even </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/feeds/654082780381852830/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=958307454171753891&amp;postID=654082780381852830&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/654082780381852830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/958307454171753891/posts/default/654082780381852830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://everydayingray.blogspot.com/2010/04/spring-is-in-air-vrooom-vroom.html' title='Spring is in the air.... vrooom vroom...'/><author><name>Tami G</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qrsRMGSkYZA/TwJ2JbnlEuI/AAAAAAAABQY/Tukr8VFd6a4/s220/me.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_28GaJBBsWDU/S7oS5HreNoI/AAAAAAAAA24/nC6n9eKtAPA/s72-c/spring.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry></feed>
